Read an article,

it’s about a life journey of a man,

who was born without legs,

but the love he holds to overcomes any physical limitation he faced,

this brave man said,

“As food is needed for the body, them same way love are needed for the soul; Food strengthens the body while love strengths the soul, a person is incomplete without love.”

He used his story to inspire and inform people all around the world,

never give up life and the chance to love,

you can’t make someone love you,

all you can do is be someone who can be loved,

the rest is up to the person to realize your worth. =)

so wherever you go,

please go with all your heart.

never ever try to playing others,

it will be your turn to be played by someone else in future.

Love is not about finding the right person,

it is not about finding the person who fulfilled all options in your ideal list,

but love is creating a right relationship.

it's not about how much love you have in the beginning,

but how much love you have build till the end.

Love isn't something can be calculated,

it doesn't have any formula too,

I know what you are thinking right now,

but everything have their first time,

no matter how great the history character is,

they are just part of the history, the memory.

treasure the present.

Show you an example,

my mommy will do,

she showed me her young photo,

no hesitate, she's beautiful!

she told me lots of her stories,

how the classmates chase her,

how the court mate flirt her...

then i asked her,

"is it my daddy your ideal husband?"

the answer the not surprising, "no!"

ya..

my dad is a moody balloon,

we can't estimate his weather.

so, my home will never be quiet when the husband and wife are home.

but yet, they love each other,

no matter how many times they quarrel,

how angry they are,

as time passed,

they will laugh together, hug each other again.

^.^

of course, children plays a very IMPORTANT role in this situation.

I, as the eldest,

sometimes have to be the postman to (.......)

okay..

Girl, my conclusion is,

Don't choose somebody based on the list on your hand and what your friends comment him. The person who makes decision is you. We are outsider; we can only give advice, not help you to decide. Cheer up, girl.